An Introvert’s Guide to Participation
If you’re anything like me, the thought of speaking up in class is worse than any midterm the prof can dish out. Your heart rate spikes when you hear the dreaded word “discussion” and you immediately plan the nearest escape route.
Or you try to become one with the lecture seat in hopes that you’ll be able to stay down. And just the thought of group work is a nightmare. But fear not, there’s hope for both you and me in this dangerous task, with just a few tips and tricks you’ll live to see the end of this lecture and get back to Netflix. Or, you know, studying.
Step One: Come to Class Prepared
Yes, this means doing the readings- no matter how long or boring they might be. Other people have it easy and are able to rattle an answer off, which usually doesn’t work for us. But having done the assigned reading is like getting the bonus- it gives you a bit more comfort and levels you up. So just in case, your plan fails and you’re not one with the seat, you can still at least be a little more prepared if you get called on.
Step Two: Plan Ahead
If you know that participation counts for a chunk of your grade, then be prepared to give one or two answers. Talk to your professor or TA ahead of time and explain the situation. You’re a nervous potato or speaking feels like entering a deathmatch, etc.
Often, they’re more okay with it then we expect. Next, take notes while the discussion is going on, like key points that interest you. If you must, write out the full sentence and just read from the page. Or stare at the wall and deliver the answer. Whatever works best for you, do it.
Step Three: Don’t Let Group Work Scare You
Group work is terrifying. Sitting with a bunch of other people and being forced to awkwardly share your thoughts is the stuff of nightmares. Or worse, a joint presentation.
The horror.
But chances are that these kids are in the same boat as you. Nobody is as confident as you think they are. So even though the thought of it might make you want to throw up, push through that feeling. Kids (most of them) are nice and not your worst fears in disguise. There’s no harm in pitching a couple of comments in. It’ll be over before you know it, and everyone can go back to avoiding eye contact with everyone else. Plus, you won’t be stamped with the label of Slacker.
Step Four: Breath
I’m really, really going to stress this. Anxiety? It sucks. Big time. But when it comes down to it and it feels like the pressure’s building, just take a moment. Close your eyes, take a deep breath and ground yourself. At the end of the day, class participation isn’t going to make or break you. You have a lot of talents that you can put into other things. If this class doesn’t go the way you hoped (i.e. the seat has not become your best friend), try again the next class.
Don’t give up!
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